Jul 10, 2013

Everything we do in life is a choice...

Everything in your life is a reflection of your choice you have made. If you want a different result, make a different choices. 
Everything we do in life is a choice, and I think most of us realize that. But what most people don’t seem to realize is that everything we don’t do in life is also a choice. Everyday we choose to do some things and to not do other things.
True that the choices we make are the ones that keep us going, if you choose to hate before you love then its up to you and again if you choose to question before you understand that's another problem....we all make choices whether good or bad.
 Reflections are your mirror into your life, where you recall images and slices of your life. It reflects the good times, the bad times, the sad times and the happy times, reflecting on the emotional highs and lows of your life and everything in between.  As you reflect back on all the choices you made in life. You must realize it is those choices and only those choices you have made which determines all aspects of your life as you know it today. I only hope all the choices you've made in the past and the ones you will make in the future will be the ones which will bring you a great deal of happiness and contentment.
                                                                There exists within us all, the power to do whatever we choose. We exhibit that power every moment of every day. Every thought we have, every action we take, every word we speak, is a choice. OUR choice. Whatever happens, you are in complete control of your response. You decide what value any event has in your life. Once you make an evaluation, you have the freedom to choose what comes next.
There are times that we have made the right decision that makes us happy and satisfied. But oftentimes, we failed to choose 'coz we made a wrong decision and we face the consequences of the result of that wrong decision we have made. No one else can make you happy, that’s up to you. No career or other person can bring you satisfaction if you are dissatisfied with yourself.
 It is like a two way path,a road or direction wherein we don't know what to choose. Then making a choice or a decision gets in. In everything you have done is something that you chose to do. Your life in its entirety is directly tied to the results of the choices you have made. When we reflect back up on our lives. We many times reevaluate those choices, and wonder what my life would be like if I had made other choices other than the ones I actually made?  Then why aren't you happy with everything you have done?
We are only held back from the things that we truly desire in life, by the choices we make on a daily basis. Most choose to make excuses and blame others for their poor results in life or in business or in a relationship and remain where they are right now, not realizing that if they would ask a few more questions about their previous choices, they might be able to push themselves to exactly the amount of success they desire. Notice that making the excuses and blaming others is also a choice. You don’t have to continue down this road to self-destruction. You could begin today to take charge of your life and begin to focus on every choice you make, big or small. Stop blaming others for your results and begin to take full responsibility for where you are currently in life. Take control of your life and get what is truly yours. If you’re not happy with what you have today, then make a choice right now to make a change in your life that will bring you more of the things that you do want.
Sometimes in life you just have to let things go, forgive, love and move on! Life is too short and you never know when your time is up.

Most people would like to change their life in one way or another. How about you? Are there areas of your life that you would like to change? Any time you want to, you can begin changing your life. You can change your physical, emotional, mental, or financial situation, and you can start today.

It all starts with a choice!





“Your life is the sum result of all the choices you make, both consciously and unconsciously.  If you can control the process of choosing, you can take control of all aspects of your life.  You can find the freedom that comes from being in charge of yourself.”     ~ Robert F. Bennett

 Whether you turn to the right or to the left, your ears will hear a voice behind you, saying, “This is the way; walk in it.” Isaiah 30:21